2 and DON’Ts of Open Relationships

2 and DON’Ts of Open Relationships

We utilized to call home in a large house or apartment with three homosexual males. They certainly were a triad, a “throuple.” I became the man upstairs. Whenever one of these got cancer tumors, none of us knew what direction to go. Do we stay? Do we fight? Do we simply live? Do we make plans? Do we stop making plans?

In his last days, their lovers expanded peaceful, ready. No body is prepared at these times, and no one deserves it. But there is however one payoff that is essential Cancer reveals, from life’s array connections, those that matter many. Like sifting gold away from dust, discomfort reveals which loves are genuine. Theirs had been.

Their relationship had been nonmonogamous and polyamorous. Or in other words, their setup was excessively nontraditional by hetero standards and pretty typical by queer people. Continue reading “2 and DON’Ts of Open Relationships”